Domination styles vary with every submissive. There is no one shoe that fits all. Through the years, domination kinks have grown more elaborate in the world of “sophisticated sex” as I call it. Venturing from the vanilla to a more varied world, I will give guidance to where your kink could go. For all fetishes discussed, a submissive should never top from the bottom. He will be dismissed immediately if he does so.

Sissification

Sissy training is a very personal preference. Crossdressing is involved even if it is only panties. The interview is most important as to discuss the element of humiliation which is enjoyed by many sissies. This includes small penis humiliation,  strict sissy maid training,  and other fetishes which can include orgasm denial and chastity training. Feminization is the key to sissy training, often including emasculating the sissy to break down his male behavior. He must become as feminine as possible without upstaging his Femdom Mistress. Eventually, he will be taught to walk and talk as feminine as possible. He will be given tasks and assignments. Sissies can be bi-sexual and they will be tested on cocksucking skills. Some sissies like pain with humiliation. Other harder training can be added for extra pleasure. Please your Mistress by doing assignments she prescribes and being a dutiful maid.

Governess Domination

Governess play deals with corporal discipline and impact play. I group this together as D/s. This type of play is seen in dungeons all over the world where Mistress uses tools such as whips, crops, canes, and dresses in elaborate fetish wear. To be a good slave you must love pain and bondage and adhere to a strict protocol. To make points with your Femdom, be sure to offer gifts of pain toys in any form such as electro boxes to fragrant hemp bondage rope. Domination styles vary. A spreadsheet of agreements is recommended along with a contract.

Cock Control And Chastity Training

Cock control is a broad category but orgasm denial tops the list. Do you want to please your Femdom? Orgasms are not taken for granted. Infractions are dealt with by enforcing chastity with a cage for a given amount of time demanded by the Femdom. How to please your Mistress depends on what has been agreed upon. Some cock control programs go for only days, some for years. Chastity training is more complicated. What cage. the schedule, the keyholding method, among other agreements. Ruined orgasms come under this category along with edging, tease and please. and gooning. A good masturbatrix can enhance your enjoyment. Choose from strict to erotic neutral.

Body Worship

The last category I will address is Body Worship. This is a Goddess Worship category. Body worship can be hard or soft, demanding and strong, and will deal with different parts to be worshipped. Foot fetishism is extremely popular with body worshippers. Foot fetishists often like trampling with heels and dirty gym socks adding the aroma fetish.  On the more aggressive side, face sitting on top of a submissive’s face and nose is extremely pleasurable and humiliating. Body Worship is versatile and sexy, focusing on beautiful body parts to worship.

In Summary

This essay does not cover the full spectrum of Femdom and Domination styles. I will continue to write more about this with subcategories and detailed fetishes such as the tickle fetish, balloon, smoking and fetishes less popular. In the future I will write an extensive essay on my favorite fetish. The Medical Fetish with all of it’s sexy strictness and equipment. If there is a style you would like to hear about, by all means, drop me a line at cassandra@enchantrixempire.com

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