How did you become a submissive?
As a Mistress, I want to know as much as I can about any fetish playmate. I will often use our fetish negotiation conversations as foreplay with a purpose. It’s hot for us both and I learn a lot about you — including the beginning urges that might indicate you are ripe for training as a submissive or slave. I love doing erotic audios about Mistress domination.
Check out this comment from my servus (humble servant or slave):
“I’ve always been a submissive, but it’s not like anyone is born into the world a fully functional sub complete with kinks, fetishes and those vulnerabilities we all harbor. Particularly so, when society doesn’t really want to talk about what submissive men are – or even admit them openly. Honestly, even now in open conversation I’d never introduce myself as a sub (unless of course I was ordered to).
My journey to personal understanding started with one of my first real relationships. My partner thought it would be funny to put me in her panties before giving me a handjob.”
From the Femdom Perspective
In the beginning, the woman might not even know SHE is Dominant. ~grins~ But, ahhhhhhh feeling the rush of power. SHE is experimenting too.
Female Power
SHE begins to feel her Domme power, especially when she realizes just how much power she has! Servus continues:
“As soon as she slipped her panties on me my sensations spiked. The light touch of the sheer mesh across my buttocks, the way the thin elastic cupped my sack, and then as I got hard, the feeling as my cock strained against the lace flowered patterns and I oozed pre-cum onto the little crowning bow.”
Are YOU ready? Mmmmm.
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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How humiliating it must be for the many men out there who have always had submissive feelings, but feel constrained by society, and even by the women they’ve dated in the past, to take on the leading role in the bedroom! How relieved they must be when they find Us, and therefore find interest, understanding, and a home for their submissive desires! Especially if they’re lucky enough to find *You*, Mistress Olivia!
I did not always realize I was submissive. I sort of began to think something was up as a teen but I did not have much language for it and definately did not speak openly about it. I began to have experiences both sexual and not where something clicked deep inside me when a female told me what to do. Sometimes it was simply a subtle language thing. Often it was not in a sexual situation at all. In fact my strongest reactions were in non sexual situations where a female would just tell me what I was to do. Or what she expected me to do. I noticed this in jobs with females in offices but even earlier in doing yard work or something like that for women in my area. When women were “bossy” or “directive” and sort of disregarded me has having any say or authority it felt right. I cannot think of another word for it but “right”. It is not a very good or full description but that is the best I have. I also was attracted to some girls in high school and college who basically led me around. I (sort of) knew it but was so thrilled by them that I did not acknowledge how I was being bossed. It was just more important that I be allowed to be near them. A couple of girls were extremely bossy with me. I think that once they bossed a little and I did not object they got even more directive and bossier. One girl (“friend”) would pretty much tell me I was going with her if she went shopping or if she simply wanted company somewhere. She would not “ask’. She would literally “tell” me. I think this was when I started to realize I needed or preferred or was better with a female in charge. I began to begin to understand that the feelings in me were very, very deep and not avoidable.