This is a MAJOR rant on my femdom pet peeves list, and I was inspired to write this blog after a chat I had with a fellow phone Domme. The topic was male submissives, and how many male subs are very selfish, how to tell if you are one of those selfish submissives, and tips to find your “Dream Mistress.” The biggest tip: RESEARCH YOUR POTENTIAL MISTRESS!!!
Femdom Pet Peeves – Save Time and Do Your Homework
One of my biggest femdom pet peeves, is guys who don’t read, and then call or email me asking me questions that have A. already been answered on the site or B. have been answered on my blog. And one of the best ways to ensure you have a fantastic time with me as your Mistress, is to make sure you do your research, and due diligence by reading my blog, if you follow me on twitter read my tweets and you will very quickly find out what my interests are, and what kind of Mistress I am. Specifically when it comes to submissives who are looking for a very specific Domme type, or fantasy. Perfect example: Sissy training calls. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve had a sissy contact me wanting the nurturing, doting type of sissy Mistress, and they didn’t read my blog before contacting me. They just decided from my voice and pictures that I was the one for them and that I was going to fulfill whatever their niche was, to the point of topping from the bottom. If you know me you know I do not mince words, and can be extremely curt. I want my time valued just as much as you want yours valued, and if you researched me – your “Dream Domme” – first, you would have figured out that I am anything but a nurturing sissy Mistress. I’m exactly the opposite. You will also find that if you attempt passive aggressive behavior with me, you will quickly find yourself on the receiving end, of the opposite of ANYTHING you wanted. Not to mention how embarrassing it is to have to admit your foul up.
Research and the Proper Approach
Once you’ve thoroughly reviewed the type of calls I like doing, what type of Mistress I am, and whether or not that will work for you, then you have to work on the delivery. And the delivery, is EVERYTHING. LDW thrives on customer satisfaction, and that goes both ways. You wouldn’t want to be tethered to a Mistress you had 0 chemistry with now would you? And you certainly wouldn’t want to insult a potential Mistress before you’ve even had a chance to chat with her. So here’s some pro tips for you: 1. READ MY BLOG. A lot of what is on my blog, are topics and call types I enjoy. That way you aren’t wasting my time or yours with the “so what type of calls do you like doing?” question, it’s already in my blog. Read it. 2. Fill out my pre-call questionnaire. It’s there for a reason. It helps me figure out whether or not I’ll be a good fit for you, and it helps you to identify yourself, your kink, and your interests, so that you can find the best fit FOR YOU. 3. Once you’ve done the first two, email me at Brighton@enchantrixempire.com and properly introduce yourself.
Pet Peeve Bonus – “Are You Available?”
If you go to cock control or the click 2 call page, or any of our other sites, and I’m listed as one of the available Mistresses for calls, there is NO NEED for you to message me asking me this question. Because once again it’s already been answered for you. I’ve got a few more pet peeve bonuses listed on the audio that accompanies this blog. Click on the audio link to have a listen. WARNING: Super long audio rant Brighton activated. And if you’ve done all the above and you’re ready for a call, you can reach me at 1-800-601-6975 to be connected, just ask for Brighton. I’m on during the week between 12pm and 3pm EST, until midnight. And on the weekends after 6pm EST. I do take some Sundays off, so if you do not see me, feel free to email me to set up an appointment, at the above email. It’s also my anniversary month, and I’ve got some free phone sex packages available, which would be a great way to do an introductory call with me, and get some free minutes added to our session. I hope you enjoyed reading and listen, as much as I enjoyed writing and ranting. Talk soon!
FUCK OFF!
Mistress Brighton
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You know, I try not to let too much get under my skin, because life is short and some assholes want more emotional real estate than they can really afford… but yeah. “are you available?” every. single. time.
Something about that question just bugs me. My schedule is on the blog, I work the same time every day, you can check multiple websites including my blog, it’s on my skype and twitter and fucking shit my man, can you read at all? wtf.
I think they want an engraved invitation, like, we’re just so damn happy to see their dick in particular, that we should be like, “no, I wasn’t, but, just for YOU, because you’re so speschuuuuul, I’ll jump, no, LEAP, to be allowed the awesome privilege of listening to you wank off.”
Just fucking call, dude. This isn’t rocket science. Just. Call.