You know, distance domination bondage techniques are difficult to engineer.
But that doesn’t keep Me from trying to crack that tough nut (I bet some cbt fans got triggered reading that)!
Then I remembered mouth restraints! You can put them on and take them off yourself!
And better still, they make you drool for Me!
Oh, I can read your mind, cheeky subbie:
“I don’t need a mouth restraint to drool for you, Goddess!” snerk
You’re adorable for that.
I know My voice and pictures may have drawn you to Me. They may have caused your thoughts to run wild, and yes, perhaps your mouth to water. But I’m talking about distance domination bondage play here. *wink*
And in that context, I love the surrender of control drooling represents in a subbie, regardless of what other kinks W/e might explore with it.
In this post, I’ll explain more about that, share some of My favorite “drool tools”, and then give you an assignment!
Let’s get started!
More on why I like drooling in distance domination bondage
Whether you’re sitting on a dildo or edging that cock for Me, controlling your mouth as well deepens your submission not just physically, but psychologically.
When that control is so direct that it makes you drool, you’re coerced into doing something social norms dictate that you should be ashamed of in front of another person.
I especially love it when that other person is ME! ?
Many slaves are used to having various other parts of their bodies restrained in a BDSM scene, but few ever think about the surrender of their mouths. Taking away your power to speak easily is one thing. Demanding you experience the jarring sensation of an involuntarily open mouth for an extended period of time is another.
Making a mess of yourself in a way that doesn’t include your orgasm is an added bonus!
The key is making it involuntary, of course.
That’s where drool tools come in!
What are My favorite “drool tools”?
Clothes pins: These are strictly DIY, and don’t require any special purchases. At least none you’ll necessarily have to hide. Just stow them in the basement or laundry room, and when you’re not using them to drool for Me, they’ll look like any other piece of clutter! When you ARE with Me, however, you’ll clip one or two to your tongue, and make yourself leak for Me in a whole new way!
The Spider Gag: As pictured at right, the spider gag really holds your mouth open wide, and gets the juices flowing!
Unfortunately, I don’t think the ring on most spider gags is big enough to fit most dildos through. Otherwise, I’d love using it with some of you cocksucker trainees out there. But as it exposes the whole inside of your mouth, it will expose your vulnerability, too!
About that dildo–you’re welcome to test that out for Me! ?
The classic ball gag: I like to have subbies get the biggest ball gags they can find for drooling fun. But even without that, having ones’ mouth stuffed that way is bound to have you fruitlessly slurping in no time! You’d be surprised at how hard it is to swallow with your mouth wide open!
Calling all distance domination bondage “crash test dummies”!
There are a couple of premises I’d like to test, and YOU can help Me do that:
- Involuntary open-mouthed drooling makes you feel submissive and controlled
- Controlling your mouth is a good distance domination bondage technique
So, how will you test this for Me?
First of all, the tools above are not exhaustive. Anything you can wear on your tongue or put in your mouth that holds it open and won’t injure you (or cause you to safeword from discomfort), I’m interested to have you try!
Maybe just sticking things in your cheeks that are big enough to hold it open but not small enough to swallow will work, and may be easier for you to acquire! If you’re a fan of ass play (and diligent with your sex toy housekeeping), a nice big butt plug will do!
I don’t think a dildo will give Me the results I need, because you’ll have to hold the base, or suction cup it to something that lends similar support to a hand, and that’s not “involuntary” enough for My purposes!
Once you’ve got something in mind, listen to the audio below for your assignment, and then leave your results in the comments!
Ready, set, GO!
xoxo
Goddess Rachel, Distance Domination Bondage Queen
1-800-356-6169
P.S.: This is not recommended for those with jaw, tooth, or chronic breathing problem