Hi there, guys, this is Ms. Kay Marie, and I’d like to talk to you today about dominance. Everyone has their own definition of what dominance is, and I’m no different. But most people can agree on a few things when it comes to BDSM and domination.

I’m going to say something that may be a little surprising, coming from me. But in my opinion, dominance doesn’t have to be mean or humiliating (that’s not the surprising part). It can, however, still be strict, if necessary. Yes, I know, you guys may not necessarily associate strictness with me, but not all domination is sensual domination, though there’s certainly nothing wrong with that, either, if that’s what you like. It all depends on the people in question, I always say.

Strict–But Not Mean–Dominance

But, yes, it’s true that I can be quite strict when the need arises. I am not mean. I do not raise my voice. But I can be a stickler for whatever rules I decide to put in place. Just ask anyone I’ve ever put on orgasm denial if you don’t believe me!

Strict dominance, to me, means that you are well aware of your place. In sensual domination, the lines blur a little more, but in strict domination, there is a very clear delineation between roles. Sometimes, you need to be put in your place physically, while other times, doing it verbally will suffice. You just need to know your place at all times and know that you have someone with a firm hand who will not tolerate your misbehavior.

I think many of you would benefit from this kind of strict dominance. I know you think you want it in a more sensual way, and that’s understandable. But for those of you who are struggling in your lives, strict domination is a way to learn willpower and discipline.

Changing Your Life With Strict Domination

Now, that’s not to say I’m going to come into your life like a whirlwind and rearrange everything to suit me. No, what I like to do is ask you what you would like to change in your life. Perhaps you want to become more disciplined when it comes to your masturbation habits, which would mean more cock control in your life. Or maybe you’d like to lose some weight or exercise more or even just learn to eat your own cum if you’re one of those guys who likes to back out from it at the last minute.

In any and all of these cases, you would benefit by having a stricter Domme to help you. I would work with you to start with, to create a plan to improve whatever aspect of your life you’re looking to improve. I’d also make sure said plan had your approval before I implemented it. (You’re not going to get very far with a behavioral plan you fundamentally disagree with, after all.) Then, once it was decided what, exactly, we’re going to do, I would stick very closely to the plan and its rules and agreements. We’re going to change your life here, and I take that responsibility very seriously.

How do you, personally, feel about strict dominance? Do you need some of it in your life, or does the idea scare you out of your wits? Be sure to let me know because I’m always curious about how others feel about the things I write about! And if you’d like to submit to some strict domination, you’re always welcome to give me a call.

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