New to Femdom Phone Sex? First off if you are new to femdom phone sex it’s ok to be nervous. However keep in mind even the mistress you called was new to femdom at some point.
Everything you do in your life you had to have a “first time” so this is nothing different from that. Experiencing a first can be exciting, scary, and very stimulating that you might not nail it the first time. It happens but I’m here to offer some advice for having a great first call.
How To Approach Your First Femdom Phone Sex Call
First off understand that femdom phone sex covers an extremely wide scope of fetishes and kinks. Each with their very own levels of mild to extreme. The reason I point this out is often when we are horny or becoming aroused we can be very single-minded. So you can often forget the first time with your mistress that she is not a mind-reader.
What she is, is an extremely smart, talented, and adaptable person. When I answer that phone I’m ready for anything. However, that means you must be ready to share. Be capable of saying what you want clearly at least once so that the one taking control can ask appropriate questions. Then jump right into anything from an intense story, conversation or sexy roleplay.
Learning Boundaries And Exploring New Ideas
Oftentimes on your first femdom phone sex call you discover certain boundaries, or even new turn-ons. Be sure to voice them either way. I like to gradually build up to certain button pushers when you’re new just in case in my initial conversation we didn’t get to cover everything. As I don’t want our first call to just be an interrogation (unless you’re into that kind of thing). By doing this I use my noggin to decipher how to proceed through your reactions. So why do I need you to tell me what you like and don’t like?
Well sometimes if I go off course it may scare you, or surprise you so much you disconnect. To embarrass about being into something new or very embarrassed with the direction I took it in. Either way it’s ok but hopefully we can avoid it. This happens normally when you may have been very withholding on first contact. I don’t want that, and you shouldn’t either. So be prepared to be vocal about your boundaries, and at least reactive to things that really hit the spot.
What If I’m Really Nervous I’m Not Sure I Can Just Blurt It Out
That is very understandable. Femdom covers a wide variety of topics and a lot of them are not exactly well received in society. Some are embarrassing, some are considered “depraved” or just silly. The way around that is to do a short introduction with the mistress of your choice with an email. Or even better a purchase a sexy texting session with her for a more in depth intro conversation. That way you can use your words without feeling so much of the spotlight on you.
Your first femdom phone sex call should be a good one. That’s the amazing service we want to provide. The best way for us to do that is with information. With getting to know you, with establishing an intimate relationship that may vary on degree but intimate on a level you won’t reach with most others.
Relax, Just Pick Up The Phone
So I leave you with one last piece of advice. Just relax. We are professionals and the best when it comes to all things femdom. We will embrace you with open-minds and hearts even when we are bending you over and stuffing you full with stuff! You will be enjoying the beginning of a wonderful new journey in your life if you can communicate.
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