Every Dungeon Needs A Good Foundation
If you want a good scene – whether it’s on the phone or real-time – you need to start off with a good foundation. Ever watch that Mike Holmes guy? First thing he takes apart on every house is the foundation so he can build it right. BDSM is the same way.
I just start laughing when I ask a caller what he wants to do and he says, “Anything you want, Mistress.” Really? You have no limits and you’re interested in anything? Look, we all have our fetishes and our kinks. Some guys like to dress up as sissy maids. Some want to be teased and edged for hours. Some want to be spanked. If you don’t tell your Femdom where your interests are, how is she going to craft an exciting, intense scene for you? This isn’t topping from the bottom, it’s being open and honest about what you want. It’s in her power to give it to you…or not. And speaking of topping from the bottom….
Obedience Is Another Brick In That Foundation
Once you’ve told her what your interests are, you’re giving her the responsibility to decide how that is going to be played out. Want to be teased and edged? Well, she decides how to tease and edge you – and, since you’ve given her control of that cock, she gets to decide if it’s allowed to spew. Want to be spanked? It’s her call if that’s an over the knee spanking, or a paddling or cropping on her spanking bench. When she says “Jump!” you say “How high?” And if she utters that magic word – “Cum!” – you’d better be ready to shoot that load, before she changes her mind!
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