There are many myths and misconceptions about the world of Domination.
I want to touch base on the terms “Top” and “Bottom”.
The term “Top” during sex:
The top need not be physically on top of the other partner though this is often the case.
“Top” can also be used as a transitive or intransitive verb meaning to sexually penetrate
Contrast between “top” and “bottom” in sex vs BDSM The top during sex is the one doing the stimulation and may not always be the one in charge.
The term “Bottom” during sex:
“Bottom” can also be used as an intransitive verb meaning to be sexually penetrated by: to bottom for someone. During sex the bottom or one who is being penetrated can be the one in charge. The top can tell their partner how they enjoy being stimulated and penetrated. This is not in relation to BDSM.
Contrast between “top” and “bottom” in sex vs BDSM:
The terms “dominant” or “active” have been used for “top” in sex, and the terms “submissive” or “passive” have been used for “bottom”, though these may be confusing as the sex in question need not be part of a dominance relationship, nor is the bottom necessarily “inactive” or less “active” than the top. By extension, the term “top” is also used in BDSM to mean a partner who applies stimulation to another, and who may or may not be dominant.
Also, a top in BDSM need not be the ‘insertive’ sex partner; for example, a female dominant may command her submissive to penetrate her.
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I wanted to touch base on the terms “Top” and “Bottom” because there are many myths in the world of BDSM that becomes very misconstrued.
Point blank once you enter the world of BDSM the Dominant is the “Top” and the submissive is the “Bottom.” Even if such slave is a male being ordered to penetrate his Mistress then he is still the “Bottom.”
Many Domination sayings come from the terms “Top” and “Bottom.” The submissive who tries to lead from the “Bottom.” If the Submissive who is known as the “Bottom” in BDSM is trying to lead and play pretend like they are in charge then it is not a proper power exchange. As a submissive male it is your duty to know your place and do not lead from the “Bottom.” Do not try to lead your Mistress around.
“The leash does not go both ways in my world.”
A true domme pays attention to her slaves needs. I really listen and take care of my subs. I am very protective of my sub.
Trying to play like the dominant when you are supposed to be a submissive is not only disrespectful to the Mistress, but it also shows how truly pitiful you are. Anyone who even fantasizes of being a submissive does have it in them somehow. Losing your respect for women and treating a Mistress like a Bitch is not a true Submissive. In fact, that is not a real man in deed.
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