Some men know they are submissive out of the gate, others are unsure. In this post I am going to outline things that may help you tap into your true sexuality. You might be a submissive male if…
1. You are attracted to strong women
This could manifest by being attracted to your boss, doctor, lawyer, or a take charge friend. You admire women who have strong personalities and exhibit control. If you are in your 20’s or 30’s maybe you are attracted to one of your Mother’s friends. You view these women as dominant and find them sexually intriguing.
2. You recognize you enjoy being told what to do.
If you are in a relationship, you find yourself enjoying it when your significant other tells you things like, what to wear, what you will be doing or you or gives you tasks. Being told what to do puts you in subspace and you like that. When she issues instructions, she is in control and you feel a need to obey. Obeying feels good.
If you are not in a relationship, you may find you crave women that want to tell you what to do, be it a co-worker or friend. In reality you crave being with a woman that wants to hold the reigns and call the shots. Giving up control and being told what to do feels like a major kink for you. And it is!
3. You Seek Approval
You find yourself craving approval from women. Perhaps you get approval when called pet names or through feeling rewarded for tasks completed or when you obey. The approval is important to you. You may not know why, but you deeply want her approval and get pleasure from her praise. Approval comes in many forms, some sexual, some not, and you crave all of them. If you have been given a task, and done it well, she may ruffle your hair, kiss your cheek and tell you, you have been a very good boy.
4. You Enjoy the idea of being restrained
You find yourself thinking about all the ways you could be restrained. From being tied up, handcuffed, put on a St.Andrew’s cross, or even wearing a ball gag, all forms of bondage intrigue you. You like the thought of bondage and being under someone’s control.
You know you will be at your most vulnerable in this state. There are many forms of bondage to explore and you want to explore them all.
5. You are intrigued by the idea of Cock Control
The idea of a woman controlling your cock, edging you, denying you, putting you in a chastity cage…these things turn you on. You watch a great deal of cock control porn and are constantly learning new things about it. You would love to give the right woman control over your cock and do as she pleases with it.
6. You feel the Need to Serve Women
You feel a deep need to serve women however you can. Sexually you want to be used, very much like a toy. But outside the bedroom you want to serve in many ways, finding out how you can be of service. From cleaning the house, cooking meals and running errands, you feel complete when you are serving.
You Might be a Male Submisisve If: Conclusion
Within submission there are literally hundreds of kinks. Every submissive is unique and will enjoy a myriad of different kinks. And that’s half the fun, figuring out what you are into and exploring. Step one is determining if you are indeed a submissive, step two, is where you start figuring out what you might enjoy.
How do you do that? Read, research, and explore! And remember, there is no better way to explore from the comfort of your own home by calling an LDW Mistress! I leave you with this…
May your submission be soft yet strong,
A place where you’ve wanted, so to belong.
May every command bring you to your knees,
And every surrender a moment to please.
Let devotion guide, each breath that you take,
A gift of yourself, for her to remake.
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Goddess Skylar
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Goddess Skylar,
Thank you for the wonderful call today. I loved it when you said the last few lines of this blog to me, in your very sexy and seductive voice. I am definitely a male submissive and I am on my knees right now, surrendering to you.
I truly enjoy revealing myself to you in our calls, telling you about all of my sissy adventures, my bathhouse visits and my upcoming session with a live Dominatrix. I can’t wait to tell you all about it in our next call.
As a follower of Skylarism, “I embrace my inner grace; let sissification take its place.”
As always, I remain your loyal sissy cocksucking faggot bottom bitch,
cdCindy XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Our call was pretty fantastic! You know I love it when you are on your knees!! Stay true to Skylarism in all things and keep this Goddess happy. I look forward to my next call with my loyal sissy cocksucking faggot bottom bitch! xxx
Hello Goddess,
Wonderful post, I definitely found myself relating to a bit of all, but for sure a need to serve a dominant woman. While I do crave that sub space you’re oh so good at putting me in, I will sacrifice it to keep you satisfied and happy.
You having a smile on your beautiful face is what I crave most.
Thank you Jeff, I am glad you were able to relate. Putting you in subspace is always a joy. You are a very good subbie boy and I love your desire to please me in all things.
Amazing Goddess Skylar, this is a great article and so close. Yes I love most of the things you listed, the mere thought of serving a woman/women causes arousal in me.
However, I have to like the woman(s) somehow. The arousal will pass the moment I feel some kind of dislike, for example if I knew she was evil for real (not as role playing). This of course is not the case with anyone from EE, I have respect and I worship all of you because you are awesome!
That’s how I feel, but as you write, we are all original and that’s a good thing.
I love your posts and you too of course, I really enjoy reading them so much.
I agree, connection to a Goddess is crucial to service. Without connection, I feel the dynamic just doesn’t work.
Every sissy is on her own journey and it’s exciting to watch each one grow into her own sissiness and find her own vibe.
Being worshipped is definitely one of my favorite things. xxx